Towards the end of his life, my grandfather was not particular happy. He had loved having a small yard and a garage and a sailboat, and as he grew older he lost all of these things. Into their eighties, Grandpa and Grandma moved into the Casa de las Campanas retirement home, a change that was probably great for Grandma but further isolated Grandpa from the things that he loved.
So this picture, taken when Grandpa was in his mid-eighties, is really dear to me. As you can see, he and his daughter share the same spry, almost-mischievous smile. Grandpa was an ardent joker and tease, but this was a part of his personality that he mostly reserved for his family. Mom was kind of his protege in this regard, as she clearly inherited the largest portion of Grandpa’s funny streak. I love how this picture captures Grandpa and Mom, both with their warm smiles, so clearly happy in each other’s presence.
This is a rather complete family picture from Karen and Charlie’s house outside of Albany, NY.
Standing are Uncle Eric and Uncle Charlie.
In the next row are Penny, Grandad, Dad, Mom, Eric, and Aunt Karen.
In front are Ken with Brian, Sam with Chris, Robin with Laura, and Andy. And I believe that’s Melissa — the child of one of Mom and Dad’s college friends — on the far right.
What makes me laugh about this picture is how our older cousins seem to have adopted one younger cousin each… with Eric and Andy seemingly not matched up.
It was more common for us to visit Grandma and Grandpa in San Diego, perhaps because California was a much more exciting place for us to go to than suburban Huntington was for our grandparents. But they did come to visit us a few times, and this is kind of a classic picture from one of those visits. Eric and I are wearing our Yankees baseball jackets, but Grandma and Grandpa look like they are all dressed up for something (probably just dinner). You can see the peach tree that was in our front yard just to the left of the picture, probably when it was just a sapling.
I have my guesses as to who these relatives are with Grandma and Grandpa and Mom at “the Casa”, but I will wait to have someone confirm my guesses.
Grandma and Grandpa moved to the Casa de las Campanas senior living center and continuing care facility in the mid-1990’s, so Mom and Dad visited them regularly out in Rancho Bernardo.
This is a really classic beach shot from 1984 in San Diego. Eric and I are ready to go with our short shorts and Pro Kadima rackets (we always were equipped with the right accessories thanks to Mom!). Grandma looks awfully dressed up for the beach, but Mom is in her full vacation mode.
This is a great picture of Dad’s brother Eric, his father Norman (a.k.a Grandad), Uncle Charlie, Aunt Penny, Dad’s sister Karen, and our cousins Robin, Ken, Andy, Brian, and Sam. Love the Hawaiian shirts, which were a staple of Charlie and Karen’s family during their time living in the 50th state.
A site remembering our parents and everything they made possible